I said goodbye for good.
Which is a pretty big deal, to be honest.
Listen to this post here.
It’s been a decade, but after a very strong pull late last year, I’m back to doing TBM (To be Magnetic) work.
I’m doing it to manifest, sure. But more than that, I’m doing it to heal some of my shit that has been lingering for far too long. I’m done carrying this baggage; I want to feel free.
So as part of the process, I re-aligned with my Authentic Code. It’s kind of like a value system, or a north star of self, if you’re unfamiliar. Here are mine:
Slow & Natural Living: Rest as a requirement not a luxury, grounding, circadian rhythm health, being outside, non toxic products, herbalism, etc.
Wellness & Self Care: Nutrition, healthy living/lifestyle, meditation, mental health, physical health and being active, etc.
Spirituality & Self Knowing: Energy healing, exploring the unseen, connection to the universe, tending to and connecting with my soul, etc.
Connection: People, animals, the earth, the universe.
It took me a while to get clear on my code. For a while, something didn’t feel quite right.
Then, it hit me: I am done with personal growth.
I changed ‘Spirituality & Personal Growth’ to ‘Spirituality & Self Knowing’, and everything fell into place. I thought, Yes, this is me.
I don’t want to fix myself.
I don’t want to improve or grow to be “better” than I am now.
I don’t want to see myself as a skillset that needs honing and tweaking.
I don’t want to feel like another project.
I simply want to get to know myself better.
I want to explore the invisible parts of me and rediscover the me who existed before societal conditioning.
I want to unlock the view of myself, and my life, that can only be seen through an energetic and mystical lens.
So, yea. I’m done with personal growth.
I gotta say: it feels pretty damn good.





I was JUST having a conversation about what seems like certain phases of healing/self-knowing (not sure of the right term -- just the grander journey to self) and it feels like there is a point where that healing or change element fades away and transforms into just wanting to amplify the inherent essence of who you are. This was my experience anyway, and it seemed to resonate with the group that was talking about it. Interesting to see you mention something similar too!